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    November 22

    I Am Thankful

    The Young Adults at our church met last night for a Thanksgiving party.  It was a good time reflecting on Thanksgiving and the need to give thanks.  Everyone mentioned something they were thankful for.  It is a good exercise to do every day.  Here are some things for which I am thankful :
    1. The Lord Jesus Christ has washed me of my sins, took the wrath of God away from me, and has made me into one of His worshippers.  Jesus, Thank You.
    2. For my wife.  She has carried the brunt of a full pastors-schedule with great dignity.
    3. For my new daughter Madeleine.  Born March 11, 2006.  She is crawling and talking a bit already.  She has to move quick to keep up with us.
    4. For my two children Liam and Grace.  They are growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ.  They are a delight to be with as they are learning how to govern themselves.
    5. For our church.  God has given us great joy in our fellowship and passionate resolve as He has surrounded us with co-laborers.  Pastor Doug is a particular blessing to work under and as a mentor.
    6. For my call as a pastor.  I have been challenged WAY BEYOND my natural ability as a pastor.  The challenge has been moral, as I have had to deal with the deepening awareness of my own sin.  The more people you work with the more times I realize how I respond sinfully.  The challenge has also been with my ability, as I have had to do things I thought I could not do.  I have dealt with many difficulties I never thought I would deal with.  It has been difficult.  Because of the difficulty, I hope that God has made me into a godlier person.  I believe He has.  That God is changing me is something to be thankful for indeed!
    For what are you thankful?
    November 20

    Thanksgiving

    I am unabashedly stealing this from my wife's blog

     

    Below I have reproduced William Bradford's Thanksgiving Declaration from 1623.  Bradford was the Governor of Plymouth Colony in Massachusetts.  Three years after they settled Plymouth he set aside a day of thanksgiving to God.  This was the First Thanksgiving. 

    Inasmuch as the great Father has given us this year an abundant harvest of Indian corn, wheat, peas, beans, squashes, and garden vegetables, and has made the forests to abound with game and the sea with fish and clams, and inasmuch as he has protected us from the ravages of the savages, has spared us from pestilence and disease,

    Notice first their struggles.  We have much to be thankful for God that he gives us abundant food, has cured many diseases, and kept us safe from harm. 

    has granted us freedom to worship God according to the dictates of our own conscience.

    We also can thank God for our country.  Bradford shows why the United States was settled and gives key principles for the formation of our country, so that we may have the "freedom to worship God according to the dictates of our own conscience."  As Pastor Doug at New Life in Christ Church has said many times, in America we are free to be as godly as we want, no one will stop us. 

     

    A biblical example of the government ignoring it’s responsibility was in the case of Daniel before he was thrown into the Lion’s Den in Daniel 6.  He was forbidden from praying to God.  When he was found praying he was promptly picked up and thrown into the Lion’s Den.  By God’s grace, he was protected from the Lions.  Darius saw his mistake and changed his decree that the Lord was to be worshipped.

     

    God has given America a government responsible to protect the free expression of the Christian faith.  This is still true in our nation and is a great reason to thank God.

    Now I, your magistrate, do proclaim that all ye Pilgrims, with your wives and ye little ones, do gather at ye meeting house, on ye hill, between the hours of 9 and 12 in the day time, on Thursday, November 29th, of the year of our Lord one thousand six hundred and twenty-three and the third year since ye Pilgrims landed on ye Pilgrim Rock, there to listen to ye pastor and render thanksgiving to ye Almighty God for all His blessings.

     

    --William Bradford
    Ye Governor of Ye Colony

    Happy Thanksgiving

    -- Sean Whitenack

    -- Ye Pastor of Ye Church

     

    The Dreaded Christian Table

    Ever wonder what people outside the church think of Christians?  A recent article describes an experience of a Christian waiter serving a Christian table.  We are characterized by them (often correctly) as rude, messy, demanding, and cheap.  My two brothers and I (they more than myself) have all worked in restaurants and we know how servers depend on tips to survive.

     

    The Bible calls Christians to be careful in the way we act before outsiders (Col. 4:5-6).  We are a witness for Christ wherever we go and whatever we do.  Anyone going into a restaurant will need to tip, so we should plan to be generous.  15% the standard tip for any kind of meal service - even bad service (period).  20% for good service and above if the service is excellent.  In our generosity and love as Christians to those that serve in our community is a necessary part of our witness.

     

    We are called to care for the poor and not contribute to their poverty.  Earning $2.50 is poverty.  Maybe the tip system is unjust, but we are stuck with it, so we should love and witness through it.

     

    If you don't want to tip, I suggest the following:

    • Stay at home.  If you can't afford to tip according to societal norms and expectations, maybe you can't afford to eat out.  Order a pizza and go pick it up.  Get take out from the same restaurant.  You don't need to tip for that.
    •  Go to restaurants that don't require tips.  This is where Julie and I almost always go because quite honestly, tipping restaurants don't fit into our budget.  Qdoba, Baja Fresh, Chipotle, The Soup and Taco - all good stuff.
    •  Don't pray - I hate to say this, but it is spiritual hypocrisy to thank God for food and promptly steal part of the meal by a bad tip.  It is saying that God did not really provide enough money to pay for the food.

    I found this article through this blog article.

    http://reformation21.org/Reformation_21_Blog/Reformation_21_Blog/58/vobId__4608/

     

    November 12

    Discipline

    From Ginger Plowman's book - "Don't Make Me Count to Three: A mom's look at heart-oriented discipline", page 25:
     
    "Many parents today have bought into society's definition of discipline.  Because they relate the word to negaitve training, they would rather tolderate their children's behavior than correct it.  Those who do attempt to establish standards tend to miss the hearts of their children.  They simply try to control their children, focusing only on their outward behavior.  They have adopted the [misguided] philosophy that if they can get their children to act right, then they are raising them the right way."

    Mothers

    From Ginger Plowman's book - "Don't Make Me Count to Three: A mom's look at heart-oriented discipline":
     
    Listen to what Thomas Edison said about his mom: "My mother was the making of me.  She was so true, so sure of me; and I felt that I had someone to live for, someone I must not disappoint."
    Abe Lincoln described his mother as the person chiefly responsible for all he was or ever hoped to become.
    George Washington said, "My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw.  All that I am I owe to my mother.  I attribute all my scuccess in life to the moral, intellectual, and physical education I received from her."
    November 06

    Help for Sexual Addiction

    The story of Ted Haggard stands as a stark reminder to us of the insideous nature of sin, possible within the Christian heart, and often it is even more of a temptation to those in Christian leadership.
     
    I know that many people keep their sexual addictions hidden just as Ted Haggard did.  A couple small recommendations I want to make are these:
    1. Healing from sexual addiction is possible.  One excellent way is through www.restoringsexualpurity.org.  They offer brief intensive counseling.  I have heard Dr. Harry Schaumburg speak, spoken to him briefly, and read a book by him and am convinced that his plan will restore the truly broken.
    2. That leads me to his book, "False Intimacy".  It is an excellent resource to understand yourself and the root of sexual addition.  It is one of the most helpful books I have ever read.

    True Repentance and False

    It is possible to feel very sadly about our sin but not really be repentant.  Listen to what the apostle Paul says, "For the sorrow that is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation, but the sorrow of the world produces death. For behold what earnestness this very thing, this godly sorrow, has produced in you: what vindication of yourselves, what indignation, what fear, what longing, what zeal, what avenging of wrong! In everything you demonstrated yourselves to be innocent in the matter" (2 Corinthians 7:10-11).
     
    We need always to remember who we have sinned against.  It is not primarily the victims of our hate, our infidelity, or our deception.  We have sinned against God and rubbed mud over His spendid name.  "Against You, You only, I have sinned And done what is evil in Your sight, So that You are justified when You speak And blameless when You judge" (Psalm 51:4).
     
    So, the first words out of our mouth when we sin to apologize to God for robbing Him of His glory.  It is also the first step into healing.  We need to see how horrible our sins are.  Just to say, I am sorry I got caught, I am sorry to hurt you, or I am a wicked person is not the proper starting point.  True saddness of sin is to cry out to God in saddness for offending Him.  Once we hit that point we realize that an apology won't cut it.  How can we make it better to God?  We can't, but Christ can.  Only when we see the truest part of our problem will we go to the remedy for our saddness.  As Romans 5:1 says, "Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ" (Romans 5:1).  Albert Mohler captured that very well as his words close out this article.
    November 04

    Guy Fawkes

    Tonight my neighborhood celebrated Guy Fawkes Night with a big bonfire in our "common area".  Bet you never heard of Guy Fawkes have you?  Liam loves it because he gets to drink hot chocolate and throw things into the fire.  Buring things - the dream of all males, from age 3 to age 80.
     
    During the course of the bonfire, I received the usual question that I get with the typical response.  "What do you do?"  I said knowing where the conversation was going, "I'm a pastor." Silence.  I did resurrect it by saying what I did (preach, teach, counsel, marry, bury) and that rekindled the discussion - especially because the guy was in the Navy and buried some people in the course of his duty.
     
    Still, I think I need a new line - maybe "motivational speaker", "shepherd" (that would get some looks), or "insurance ... fire insurance".  I love being a pastor, I am not embarassed about it, but I wonder if people start to think, "Oh *#$@#, I'm smoking a cigarette in front of this guy and just told him that my son is living with his girlfriend.  He's judging me."
     
    It could be that everybody thinks they know what a pastor does (which really is nothing but blog all day) and so they don't need to ask.  Or maybe they are suspicious I am going to talk to them about hell, repentance, or homosexuality and pornography (FYI, I hold those conversations until our second visit together).  I don't know...

    The Pastor and Sexual Sin

    Good article for pastors to consider, and for congregations to think about for their pastors:

    Hypocrisy

    1 Cor. 10:12 - "If you think you are standing firm, becareful that you don't fall!"
     
    "It is only too easy for those who are consciously and vigorously opposed to false teaching and its associated temptations to find that ehy are unconsciously affected by it; a person who publicaly condemns, say, pornography can still take a secret delight in it. [...] [We need to be warned] against an attitude which would ruin [our] fellowship and land [us] in spiritual destruction, namely love of the world." - I Howard Marshall, John, 142

    Running Results

    I remember the first time I googled my name.  I found a list of 5k running results - not ones I was particularly happy with.  I am getting my times down.  Last month, I ran the University of Mary Washington 5K and finised 26:16 - I was extatic.  Today I finised the YoungLives race in a time of 25:30.  I was flabbergasted.  Though I was not even close to winning (the winning time for my age bracket was 20: something) (Chris Pirch from our church ran it in 18:something), this is world-record time for me!
     
    Then our kids ran the Tot Trot 1/4 mile race.  We're starting them early.
    November 01

    Invitation

    I know this is a last second invitation, but I am running this Saturday (7:30 AM) in the Young Lives 5K (3.1 miles) run.  Young Lives is a local ministry to young girls who become pregnant in high school and is led by a member at our church, Katie Pirch.  The race will raise money to help these girls.  My kids are running in the Tot Trot later.

     

    I am not a fast runner, probably I will be second to last in my age group, but I can run the 3.1 miles in about 26:30.  I would love to have some people to run with!

     

    More information can be found here.